what is pyromania

When people use the word pyromania or pyromaniac, people think of it as something they heard of in a film, but it is a real mental health condition.  If someone is fascinated by fire or commits arson people may assume they have pyromania, this is not necessarily the case.  Arson is a crime, and pyromania is a very rare psychiatric condition that is not particularly well researched.  It affects men more than women and generally starts in their late teens or early adulthood.

Pyromania is an impulse control disorder and is characterised by a pathological and uncontrollable desire to start fires, as well as a fascination with all things fire related.  Impulse control or conduct disorders cause people to be aggressive towards people or their property.

They know that setting fires is both dangerous and illegal, but the act of starting a fire is the only way that they can relieve the build up of tension, anxiety or arousal that the condition causes.  Generally they will set a fire about every six weeks and they will feel extreme satisfaction and release after they have done so.

Diagnosis

To be diagnosed with the condition a person must:

·      Be intensely attracted to fire and fire paraphernalia

·      Derive pleasure from either seeing or setting fires

·       Repeatedly and intentionally start fires

·      Feel tense or excited before starting a fire and feel relieved afterwards

·      Their symptoms can’t be explained by a manic episode, other conduct disorder or antisocial personality disorder

They will not be diagnosed with pyromania if their reason for starting a fire was:

·      For some kind of monetary gain

·      To cover up a criminal act

·      Out of anger or vengeance

·      When suffering from hallucinations or delusions

·      For ideological reasons

·      When under the influence of alcohol or drugs

Causes

As there is limited research on the condition, the cause of pyromania is unknown, but certain factors can increase your risk of developing an impulse control or conduct disorder.  These can include:

·      A history of physical or sexual abuse

·      Having parents who suffer from addictions or have a history of breaking the law

·      Having a chemical imbalance in the brain which can affect how we feel and act

·      A history of mental health problems or drug and alcohol misuse

·      Being neglected as a child or having learning difficulties or poor social skills

·      Having a family history of psychiatric illness

Symptoms

People with impulse control disorders have a hard time controlling their behaviours and emotions.  Whilst on occasion we can all feel like this, they will feel this way, frequently and for much longer and in different situations, and it will cause them significant problems.

Professional Help

There is no single form of medication or therapy to treat pyromania, your doctor may prescribe a combination of medications and therapy.

These can include, anti-depressants or anxiety medications including selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors.  Anti-androgens, atypical antipsychotics or antiepileptic medication.

Therapies such as CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy), aversion therapy, family therapy and relaxation training.

Your doctor will ensure that your treatment is tailor made to treat your symptoms.  Written by Jan, Jeana and Wendy at Barnsley Hypnosis and Counselling (UK). For more free Information click above link.

how do i choose the color of eyeglass frames

How do I choose the color of my eyeglass frames? This is a question that I believe many people would like to know before buying a pair of glasses. Nowadays, we wear glasses not only to protect our eyesight or to shade the sun but also as a decorative item to enhance our image, and the choice of eyeglass frames is a more important aspect when buying decorative glasses. Color is almost the primary consideration when we choose clothing, accessories, furniture, and other items; many people for a particular color will be particularly favored these color items more suitable for themselves. In fact, the body wears clothing and accessories color, the main color used in the living environment, to a large extent, also reflects a person’s temperament and taste, so we are very demanding for skin color, and in a very conspicuous glasses color must be carefully selected, see which color glasses frame suitable for you.

How to choose the color of eyeglass frames? Here we explain from three aspects.

The first wear occasion.

Workplace: men are not suitable to wear too brightly colored frames; they generally choose black, gray, or brown glasses that are more mature and stable. Women have no special requirements as long as they are not too fancy.

Vacation: men and women can choose brighter colors, such as white, yellow, blue, green, etc., and travel clothing to match carefully.

Dating: Men are still not suitable to wear too brightly colored frames and generally choose black or gray-based, but the frame shape can choose retro or polygonal to highlight personal charm. Women can choose black and gold with the frame to enhance their temperament and connotation.

Second skin color, glasses frame color selection, the most important consideration is the color of their skin tone.

People with fair complexion can choose any color frame.

People with yellow skin tone choose pink, coffee red, silver, white, and other light and bright color-based frames are more suitable.

People with dark skin or wheat skin can choose gold, silver, etc., to enhance the brightness of the face.

Third frame material, different frame materials often have different color performance properties, so the choice of frame color needs to be considered.

Plate series: not openly but implicitly reveal their new color proposition. Black or amber is the best choice.

Pure titanium, β titanium series: titanium frame of light and rigid, inspired design flowing its famous style. Men: black, gunmetal, and silver are the best choices. Women: red and lavender are the best choices.

Alloy series: Lively and multilateral shape, you can choose various colors, such as red, white, blue, etc. Suitable for young ladies with low prescriptions and multiple pairs of glasses.

However, color is a benevolent and wise thing; there is no completely correct statement. Sometimes, we can pay little attention to other people’s views and ideas. Red looks good, so I wear red glasses frames, I feel green is good, so I wear green glasses frames. When you can leave behind the eyes of others, maybe that’s who you really are; try it!

how the prescription lenses are produced

Today we will see how a small party of lenses can change from a solid or liquid lens raw material to a crystal clear and photometrically accurate optical product.

In the eyewear industry, lenses that are customized according to specific parameters are generally known as Rx lenses and compared to mass-produced, one-off ready-made lenses, Rx custom lenses have more production processes, are more demanding, and are naturally more expensive. In a broader sense, Rx lenses include a series of lenses that require multiple processing through semi-finished substrates, such as progressive multifocal lenses, color-changing lenses, dyed lenses, etc.

In the narrower sense of Rx lenses, as opposed to stock lenses, when the refractive power of the consumer is rare, such as spherical lenses greater than ±12.00D or column lenses greater than -2.50D or -3.00D, the lens manufacturer does not have such unconventional power lenses on hand and needs to open and grind them according to the specific power, i.e., custom lenses. The range of availability of existing lenses can be up to 1200 degrees for some manufacturers, while some need to be custom-made if they exceed 800 degrees.

Both the ready-made lenses and the Rx lenses are processed from the basic semi-finished substrates, which are produced in the process of “transformation into magic.”

The production process of ordinary lenses

Different lens manufacturers, with different equipment and different quality management systems, may differ in the specific aspects and time points of lens production and processing, but their core processes are similar. The process of processing semi-finished substrates generally includes the following links.

configuration of raw materials for lenses → preparation and assembly of molds → casting of raw materials → curing → opening of molds → edge trimming and cleaning → curing again → inspection → hardening → inspection → three times curing → coating → inspection → packaging

Take the common resin lenses on the market today as an example, the raw material is in the form of liquid, and the largest proportion of the raw material is a polymeric monomer, such as the MR™ series produced by Mitsui Chemicals, which is a type of polymeric monomer. The monomer material is carefully blended with various additives such as hardeners and dyes (anti-blue light) and then injected into a lens mold made of glass, cast, molded, cured, opened, and cured and coated several times before becoming a lens.
In this process, the properties of the raw material, the precision of the mold, and the process are crucial.
*If the precision of the mold is inaccurate and defective, it may lead to the production of lenses with inaccurate luminosity.
* Poor control of temperature or duration in each step may lead to poor physical properties and even deformation of the finished lenses.
*Poor physical properties of the raw materials of the lenses may lead to internal stress in the finished lenses or poor adhesion of the film layer, which may lead to bad phenomena such as film peeling and lens discoloration in use.

The production process of Rx lenses
After the previous steps, a substrate with accurate luminosity and shape is completed, and after hardening, coating, and quality control, it is ready to be labeled and sold in the factory. However, there are more processes to be carried out in the Rx lab.
After receiving the personalized fitting data from the consumer, the retail terminal transmits the order data to the Rx lab, which, through built-in software calculations, converts the parameters into data that is stored in the system and selects a suitable semi-finished substrate from the inventory for further processing.

Then comes the most critical part of the workshop processing, which is to process the detailed photometric parameters onto the substrate that already has a certain luminosity. This process includes grinding, polishing, etching, etc. The requirements for precision are very high and are usually achieved through precision automated CNC machines. The technical strength of each manufacturer is reflected in the calculation, modeling, and optimization of the customer’s personalized data, as well as in the precision of the CNC machines. After cutting and grinding, the lenses change from semi-finished substrates to progressive multifocal lenses with various functions, anti-fatigue lenses, special luminosity lenses, etc.

Subsequently, the Rx lenses also go through similar cleaning, hardening, coating, and quality control processes as normal lenses before finally becoming a qualified lens that is delivered to the consumer. This also explains why prescription eyeglass lenses are so expensive; of course, these prices in the opticians include layers of wholesalers’ profits, while the internet sales prices without the intermediaries’ markups are a bit cheaper. The same quality as cheap glasses, now you know how to choose them!

Although the lens is small, its technological content is not less, between the millimeter of light control, smooth and free curvature change, all contain generations of industry wisdom crystallization, mastering the knowledge of lens production, allowing practitioners to value the beauty of technology, but also to better communicate the value of lenses to consumers.

expand your brand using other peoples money by using franchisor strategies

Back many years ago, I met a fellow franchisor, he’d built a nice company with 250 franchisees which operated Kiosks in shopping malls – you know those carts in malls that sell various wares. What he did was make each Kiosk its own business, at first as “independent contractors” but later as Franchisees due to the Franchise Law rules. Each franchisee had to sign a two-year franchise agreement with non-automatic renewal, where the Franchisor could merely take over the business, location, as he already had the lease-space agreement with the malls, including the corporations that owned many malls around the country.

After two years, he stopped renewing franchise agreements, took control of all those little businesses, and then sold the whole thing and retired a very wealthy man. Unfortunately, many of the independent contractors, turned into Franchisees were forced out after building up their businesses and providing a substantial amount of goodwill. The franchisor’s concept was built by the blood, sweat and tears of all those individuals, who did make decent money in the meantime, but were then basically terminated when their franchise agreement term ended.

Recently, there is an interesting company in the “Handy Man” sector which has a franchise agreement that states it may unilaterally buy back the franchisee’s business at any time after 2-years of operating. In the Franchisor’s option to purchase there is a mathematical formula for valuation of the Franchisee’s business that negate the value of any “goodwill” and allows the Franchisee to choose if he will see at “Fair Market Value” of assets (used equipment, office furniture) or twice the earnings before interest, taxes, and amortization (EBITA).

Why would a Franchise Buyer buy a franchise like that? I suppose there might be a few situations where it makes sense for instance, the Franchisee just needs a couple of years of income and believes they can build up a good “book” of business, and if it starts to go South, the Franchisor may buy him/her out and they can move on, less risk? But what if the Franchisor chooses not to buy and the business fails? What if the business succeeds wildly and the Franchisee is forced to sell-out a thriving and growing business?

If you think about it, it is a brilliant strategy for a Franchisor, have others build your business, take all the risks, and if they succeed, you terminate their franchise agreement instead of renewal, and if they fail, you simply let them fail, then sell that territory to a new franchisee, until one succeeds and then you just keep winning and building on the backs of others. As a franchisee buyer it may be wise to recognize such strategies and be weary of them, unless it serves your temporary purpose of a short term business and solid temporary cash flow based on your abilities and the Franchisor’s model. Think on this.m/access/

whats the number 28 reason you cant find love

I am sure that you have heard the song a thousand times, but you may have never seen a Prophetic Christian take apart the message in the song line by line and speak about the Eternal Meaning in this Song. Come and have a look at this songs lyrics in a possibly a new light today.

KEY

Italics Typeface The Lyrics of the song Normal Type My message.

There’s nothing you can do that can’t be done,

The essential thing I feel the band was saying here was that nothing is impossible for those that believe. Here are some guys that rocked the world and left many songs that even people 30 years later are singing.

Can you do anything?

The Beatles seem to think so! They say that you can do anything. Anything is possible.

Have you given up on your dreams?

Has life beaten you down?

Is your dream impossible?

Nothing you can sing that can’t be sung

You can sing anything you set your mind to. When two negatives are used in a sentence it means that the result is a positive. Another way of saying this is saying that as long as you can sing you can sing and release any song to the public.

Have you got a message in your heart?

Have you got something within you that can change the way people think? If you can write, you can write it.

If you can sing you can sing it.

If you are creative you can create it.

Do you know that the world is waiting on you? Sure God may birth your idea through someone else. Sure if you don’t do it someone else might do it. Sure you might create something and then someone else can create something better then you.

Do you think genetically modified foods put God the Creator out of sorts? Do you think man creating other strains of what occurs naturally in the world annoys God?

So too your idea with the possibility of someone else doing it. You need not let things stop you.

Nothing you can say, but you can learn how the play the game It’s easy.

Do you know that the boys that made up the famous Beatles were just ordinary folk that had a go at something they loved?

In this world we like to make idols. We like to have stars to look up to.

But are you less of a person if no one knows you?

They say that you can learn to play the game. If you can’t do it yet you can apply yourself and get it done. You can do anything and the world, even if it is just the world of the people that know you now, are waiting on you.

There’s nothing you can make that can’t be made.

Do you know that? Some things seem impossible to the world. Many people create something that does not exist in the world before they applied themselves to an idea. But go on, pursue that idea. Birth that dream.

No one you can save that can’t be saved.

Do you know some people have been dead ten minutes and come back to life because someone tried to revive them? Do you know many people have been dead longer? I know a pastor in India that raised his brother from the dead after 3 days and nights without food and water and with prayer.

There is the event that changed BC to AD. Jesus death is well recorded and the fact that He came back to life is another fact that the world likes to deny.

3 Steps to a Successful Health Care Program

We all have friends who have been sick or diagnosed with severe health problems. You may be fairly health still (congratulations!) or you might already have some issues. No matter what your particular health is right now, there are three things you can start with immediately to take better care of yourself.

1. Good Nutrition. You have probably heard this dozens of times but do you really adhere to a good diet? How often do you eat fast food? How many sodas do you drink every week? Every day? Do you eat a lot of packaged processed food, even though it is labeled “Healthy Choice” or something similar. This is not good for you! You need to eat natural, unprocessed food. Fruits, vegetables, fish, nuts, soy products and the like. Your body will gradually break down if continually fed unhealthy products.

2. Exercise. This does not mean you have to run marathons or spend hours at the gym every day. Do things that you enjoy or you will not be able to sustain a exercise regime. Walking is one of the best forms of exercise. Light weights give you some body strength and muscles are what burn the most fat so you will be able to maintain a healthy weight. Keep moving as much as possible. Gardening, walking the dog, stretching, yoga, these are all wonderful ways to keep yourself fit.

3. Take Some Good Supplements. No matter how well we eat, we are not able to take in the daily amount of vitamins, nutrients, etc. that doctors and nutritionists recommend. Make sure you get on a well recommended program that you can trust. There are some excellent natural vitamin companies out there, you just need to do the research and choose one. Look for a company with longevity and ask around to some of your healthier friends what they use.

Free Grants For Home Improvement Repair Costs

If you would like to fix or repair your house, home improvement grants provide free money to Americans who can use some financial assistance when it comes to covering the cost of home repair. These grants are typically provided by the government. More specifically, your local government has the greatest interest in helping you finance your home improvement projects, as they are the ones to benefit the most.

The home owner, also benefits greatly from these programs. Home improvement grants provide free money that never has to be paid back. As long as these funds are used for the purpose agreed upon in your grant application, the cash is yours to keep.

Once you access the grant database to find the government grant programs that you are eligible to receive, you’ll realize that there are a number of grants to choose from. Some provide money for home repair, others provide free grant money to expand your home, while others offer the cash you need to upgrade your appliances to energy efficient equipment. It all depends on what government programs are specially available in your community and how much funding is left for you to claim.

When you apply for home improvement grants, you do not have to worry about your credit score, collateral or down payment money. Because these are not loans, the government is not interested in this information. What you will need, however, is the details on your project, an estimate as to how much it will increase the value of your property, and a good idea of how much money your project will cost.

The Basics of Acquiring a US Visa

It’s not uncommon to dream of visiting places you see in the movies. Let me guess, most of them are in the United States. To name a few, New York, LA, Miami, Washington and Chicago are some of the common tourist destinations in the US. You have the resources but you harbor this apprehension of being denied.

This should not stop you from making your travel plans a reality. If you have relatives in the US or you would like to travel solo, the key is to know what type of visa you must apply for, the necessary documents you must fill out, and more importantly, the purpose of your visit to the US.

First things first, know the difference between a US Visitor Visa (B-2) and a US Visa Sponsorship.

These two things are not the same.

The visitor visa often known as B-1/B-2 visa is a non-immigrant visa for people wishing to enter United States temporarily for pleasure, medical treatment, and business. In this case, you apply for your US Visa with the US Embassy or Consulate. Whereas, a U.S. visa sponsorship is applied for by the employer or close family member by filing an immigration petition with the U.S. government for getting a residency card (Green card) for their employee or close family member. This is also known as non-immigrant petitions such as work visa (e.g., H, L visa) as well as family visa (e.g., Fiancé or K visa).

What is the purpose of your visit?
You will be asked this question by the US consul who you will meet when you get to the embassy. But before that, determine the purpose of your trip. If the purpose of your trip is to visit USA for a short duration for pleasure, tourism, and visit relatives, family, or friends, then visitor visa known as Tourist visa to USA or B-2 visa is the right visa for you.

However, keep in mind that you if apply for a visitor’s visa, among other things, you must show to the US Consular officer that they have strong ties to the Philippines as you home country and they intend return after their temporary stay in the U.S. You must also show that you have enough money available to take care your expenses for your U.S. trip such as air tickets, visitors insurance, lodging/boarding, transportation expenses, tourism expenses and all other expenses.

What if I don’t have enough resources but my friends and relatives in the US are willing to shoulder my stay there?
Then this is where sponsorship sets in.

Who can sponsor my trip?
Any US-based person can sponsor visa for his/her parents, relatives, and friends. This means that he/she must either be a holder of an I-94 (US Green card) or a US Citizen. Your sponsor should provide an affidavit of support (form I-134). The form is a confirmation that the sponsor is ready to undertake the financial liability of the applicant during the visit.

What documents do I need to submit?

Must have Documents for US Visitor Visa interview:
1. A valid passport that does not expire prior to 6 months beyond of your intended stay.
2. Printout of your confirmation page from the form DS-160
3. Fee receipt US Visa Fees
4. One photograph
5. Original/ Copy of Visa interview appointment letter

Supporting documents to show your Ties with your home country include:

You must demonstrate strong economic, social, and familial ties with your home country. You must also show that you will not become a burden on US by proving your financial stability to cover the expenses in US. These facts will ensure the interviewing officer that you will return to your home country after the authorized period of stay in USA. The required documents are:
1. Evidence of sufficient funds for the visit to US (Bank statement and passbook, etc.)
2. Evidence to show that you have strong ties to your home country. Documents related to the property you own and your employment are good evidence
a. If you are employed get a verification letter of employment
b. If you are self-employed get a financial and other documentary proof of the ownership
c. If you are a government employee get a Certificate of Employment and an Authority to Travel Certification
d. Tax ID, and recent tax-related documents
e. Original property papers like house, shop or business ownership documents etc. which you own in the Philippines/home country. If no papers available, make a notarized affidavit for the same
f. Documentary evidence of running any business or organization
g. Evidence of family ties like unmarried children, old aged parents and other family responsibilities
h. If person is an employee, other than proof of employment and proof of leave granted from the office, any such document that would show proof that you have reasons to come back

Documents and other proofs aside, the assistance of an immigration counsel/consultant who would facilitate your application and better your chances of getting approved is strongly suggested and highly encouraged.

Chicago Suburb Real Estate

The real estate market in the Chicago suburbs is as vibrant as it is in city itself. A large number of residential and commercial real estate are always available for sale or purchase in Chicago’s suburban areas such as Cook County, Lake County, McHenry and Boone counties, Kane and DeKalb counties and DuPage and Will counties. There are also other Chicago suburbs where real estate market continues to flourish.

There are real estate firms which deal exclusively with one particular suburb, and others that deal with all suburbs. The south suburbs are relatively new. The real estate prices are high here. Some of the buildings have still preserved the architecture of previous centuries.

Excellent commuting facilities leading into the city have resulted in relatively higher prices for real estate in this area as compared to some other suburbs. The northern suburbs are considered “”elite.”” Here we have villages with beautiful houses and magnificent churches, a good choice for those who are looking forward to buy residential real estate. The northwest suburbs cover huge tracts of land. The population density is low. The architecture of most of the buildings reminds one of a typical 20th century urban landscape.

Those looking for commercial real estate can go for vacant spaces in shopping malls. Residential real estate is also available in the countryside as one keeps on moving farther out in these suburbs. In the western suburbs one finds a variety of real estate, as these suburbs have a very diversified culture and economy.

There are affluent sections, as well as agrarian and industrial communities with their feet on the ground. One can get a range of real estate in western suburbs. It is clear that in general the real estate prices might be a bit on the lower side as compared to the main city area of Chicago, but as all of them have good connectivity with the main city area, one can settle down in one of these suburbs without having any major impact on one’s quality of life.

Home Improvement Solutions That You Can Use

Home improvement makes a great hobby. After all, it builds useful skills, creates a sense of empowerment, and of course it improves the function and look of your home. There are lots of ways to do it, some right and some wrong. Check out these tips so the time you spend on home repair projects will all be time well spent.

Get new tiling. If your tiling does not match your walls, or is cracking and becoming damaged, replacing it is a better way of refurbishing your home that is relatively simple and inexpensive. Stick-on floor tiles are available at many house improvement stores, and if you want to use the real ones, they are not too expensive either.

You need to make sure that you are getting the best price for your building supplies when you are doing any repairs or renovating your homes. All building supply stores carry the same materials but they all charge different prices for the materials. In order to get the best price you need to compare all of the prices at the different stores.

No matter what project you tackle with you home repair, stay safe while doing it. Wear the proper safety protection for your eyes and hands. Read the operation manuals for the power tools that you are going to use. If you do not feel comfortable with anything and it seems dangerous, hire a contractor to do that part.

Almost all Do-It-Yourself projects are pretty easy and self-explanatory. Most people can paint a room, clean storm windows, and make minor repairs. Be careful not to overextend your actual Do-It-Yourself abilities in more complex areas. Unless you really know what you are doing, you are likely to have trouble (and encounter danger) with projects such as Do-It-Yourself electrical wiring and DIY sewer line replacement. Call an expert!

Adding casual living areas to a home, is a smart and profitable home improvement project. Many homes have just one living area, the addition of a second that can be used as a family room or den are big plus to potential buyers who see your home as place that they can grow with their own family.